Thursday, November 21, 2024
33rd Week, Ordinary Time, Friday, 22-11-2024
Wednesday, November 20, 2024
Presentation of the B. V. Mary, Thursday, 21-11-2024
Tuesday, November 19, 2024
33rd Week, Ordinary Time, Wednesday, 20-11-2024
Monday, November 18, 2024
33rd Week, Ordinary Time, Tuesday, 19-11-2024
Sunday, November 17, 2024
33rd Week, Ordinary Time, Monday, 18-11-2024
Saturday, November 16, 2024
33rd Ordinary Sunday, Year B, 17.11.2024
Daniel 12:1-3 / Hebrews 10:11-14, 18 / Mark 13:24-32
One of the questions about life that we rather not think about is this:
What is it that I am afraid of?
Of course, there are many things in life that we are afraid of.
When it comes to insects and such, some are afraid of lizards, others are afraid of cockroaches, and others are afraid of spiders.
But those are just a part of the spectrum of fears.
There are some who are afraid of heights, while others have stage-fright and others are afraid of crowds.
To put it plainly, there is always something in life that we are afraid of.
In Singapore, there is this general phenomenon of “kia-su” the fear of losing out. But whatever form of fears, the fact is that when it happens, we will lose control, we may even melt down and chaos can set in.
It is like when the lights suddenly go off, and it is total darkness, and we begin to panic.
In the gospel, Jesus talked about a rather disturbing and frightening situation.
He said that in those days, after a time of distress, the sun will be darkened, the moon will lose its brightness, the stars will fall from heaven and other frightening sights.
As we think about it, distress is already bad enough.
Distress means that our lives are disturbed and we are displaced by all sorts of problems.
And it is not just about lizards or spiders, and it is more than the fear of heights or crowds.
It is about chaos and confusion, and our faith is shaken.
And as if the distress is not bad enough, the sun will be darkened, the moon will lose its brightness and the stars will fall from heaven.
In other words, after the distress, there will be darkness, a deep darkness that brings out all the fears in us.
It is like one bad thing happening after another.
As we think about it, this is not something new that Jesus is talking about.
We have experienced bad things happening in our lives, and it is one bad thing after another.
It is like being retrenched, and then getting into debt, and then a serious illness comes along.
It is one distress after another, and the darkness becomes deeper and tighter.
But in times like these, let us remember that verse from Psalm 46:10 – “Be still and know that I am God.”
Yes, we need to be still and that all the distress and darkness will pass.
Once a powerful king called upon all of his wise men and asked them, "Is there a mantra or suggestion which works in every situation, in every circumstance, in every place and in every time. In every joy, every sorrow, every defeat and every victory? One answer for all questions? Something that can help me when none of you is available to advise me? Tell me is there any mantra?"
All the wise men were puzzled by the King’s question. They thought and thought. After a lengthy discussion, an old wise man suggested something that appealed to all of them. They went to the king and gave him something written on paper, with a condition that the king was not to see it out of curiosity.
Only in extreme danger, when the king finds himself alone and there seems to be no way, only then he can see it. The king put the paper in his bracelet.
Some time later, the enemies attacked the kingdom. The king and his army fought bravely but lost the battle. The king had to flee on his horse. The enemies were following him, and they were getting closer and closer.
Suddenly the king found himself at the edge of a cliff. Underneath there was a rocky valley thousands of feet deep. If he jumped down, he would be finished, and he could not return because it was a small road, and the sound of enemy’s horses was approaching fast. The king panicked. There seemed to be no way out.
Then suddenly he saw his bracelet shining in the sun, and he remembered the message hidden in the bracelet. He opened the paper and read the message. The message was – “THIS TOO SHALL PASS”
The king read it again and again. Suddenly something struck him - Yes! This too will pass. Only a few days ago, he was enjoying his kingdom. He was the mightiest of all the kings. Yet today, the kingdom and all his pleasures have gone. He is now trying to escape from enemies. Like those days of luxuries have gone, this day of danger too will pass. A calm came on his face. He kept standing there. The place where he was standing was full of natural beauty. He had never known that such a beautiful place was also a part of his kingdom.
The revelation of the message had a great effect on him. He relaxed and forgot about those following him. After a few minutes he realized that the noise of the horses and the enemy coming was receding. They moved into some other part of the mountains and were nowhere near him.
The king was very brave. He reorganized his army and fought again. He defeated the enemy and regained his empire. When he returned to his empire after victory, he was received with much fanfare. The whole capital was rejoicing in the victory.
Everyone was in a festive mood. Flowers were being showered on king from every house, from every corner. People were dancing and singing. For a moment the king said to himself, “I am one of the bravest and greatest kings. It is not easy to defeat me.” With all the reception and celebration, an ego was emerging in him.
Suddenly his bracelet flashed in the sunlight and reminded him of the message. He opened it and read it again: “THIS TOO SHALL PASS”.
Yes, all the distress and darkness will pass but God's Word will not pass away.
Even heaven and earth will pass away, but God's Word will never pass away.
So, when we are faced with distress after distress, and the fear and darkness gets deeper and tighter, let us remember this.
Let us remember to be still and know that God is with us.
The distress and the darkness and the fear will pass away, but God's Word and His promises will not pass away.
And God's Word and promise to us is this: God is here to stay, and He will not go away.
Friday, November 15, 2024
32nd Week, Saturday, 16-11-2024
Thursday, November 14, 2024
32nd Week, Ordinary Time, Friday, 15-11-2024
Wednesday, November 13, 2024
32nd Week, Ordinary Time, Thursday, 14-11-2024
Tuesday, November 12, 2024
32nd Week, Ordinary Time, Wednesday, 13-11-2024
32nd Week, Ordinary Time, Tuesday, 12-11-2024
Sunday, November 10, 2024
32nd Week, Ordinary Time, Monday, 11-11-2024
Saturday, November 9, 2024
32nd Ordinary Sunday, Year B, 10.11.2024
1 Kings 17:10-16 / Hebrews 9:24-28 / Mark 12:38-44
Whether people believe in God or not, it cannot be denied that everyone has a conscience.
Although it also cannot be denied that there are some people who are able to suppress their conscience.
So, their conscience becomes numbed to the bad that they do to others, and evil they commit against others.
But even with the conscience suppressed, the eyes and the ears cannot be shut off from the realities of life.
And there is one reality that cannot be denied and that is the reality of retribution.
Retribution is commonly understood as some kind of “payback”, and it is usually about a punishment that is inflicted for some wickedness or evil that was done in the past.
The reality of retribution is often portrayed in stories, movies and dramas.
It is also something that we would talk about in order to dissuade someone from doing something wicked.
And it may also be something that we have experienced in our lives or in the lives of people we know.
In the gospel, Jesus did not use the word retribution.
But in His teaching, He told the people to beware of the behaviour of the scribes.
Jesus also said that because they swallow the property of widows while making a show of lengthy prayers, the more severe will be the sentence they receive.
So, Jesus is issuing an unmistakable warning for those who commit wickedness and evil against others.
More than just retribution, the wickedness and evil committed against others is done before God.
Yes, God sees, God knows and God waits.
But even as Jesus issued the warning against the wicked and the evildoers, He also pointed out something inspiring and enlightening.
No one really noticed that poor widow who dropped the two small coins into the Temple treasury, but Jesus did.
And how did Jesus know that the two small coins were all that the poor widow had to live on?
There could be a couple of explanations, but in the end it comes down to this:
God sees, God knows and God waits.
But if God sees and God knows, then what is God waiting for?
Well, that poor widow dropped in the two small coins, everything she had to live on, and there were no immediate rewards for her.
But we believe, that God will bless her and provide for her and that God will sustain her because of her faith and generosity.
So, God sees, God knows and God waited, so that His blessings will be more than we can expect.
So, for the good we do, let us do it quietly and humbly, like that poor widow.
Our reward is not in man's praises and admiration, but in the blessings of God, the blessings of His love and peace.
As for those who commit wickedness and evil, let us not threaten them with retribution or punishment.
Because God sees, God knows and God waits.
God waits for our two small coins of prayer for sinners as He waits for their repentance and conversion.
Yes, God sees, God knows and God waits.
God waits to grant sinners forgiveness, and God waits for our two small coins of prayers, prayers for the conversion of sinners.
Friday, November 8, 2024
Dedication of the Lateran Basilica, Saturday, 09-11-2024
Thursday, November 7, 2024
31st Week, Ordinary Time, Friday, 08-11-2024
Wednesday, November 6, 2024
31st Week, Ordinary Time, Thursday, 07-11-2024
There had been many suggestions as to what is the most important verse or phrase in the Bible.
Well, the top contender seems to be John 3:16-17, followed by a host of profound Bible verses and passages.
Chapter 15 of the gospel of St. Luke may sound rather ordinary and today's gospel passage may just be about parables.
But nonetheless, today's gospel passage reflects the essential message of the Bible, and that is, it emphatically illustrates God's inexplicable and infinite love to save every man and woman whom He created in His image and likeness.
There are only 3 parables in Chapter 15 of the gospel of Luke - the Lost Sheep, the Lost Coin, the Prodigal Son.
The scribes and Pharisees criticized Jesus for always being in the company of sinners and ritually impure people and the so-called bad company.
But Jesus always had a very deep compassion towards these so-called sinners. He even said that it is not the well who need a doctor but the ill.
Even this aspect of Jesus is not often understood by us who are His disciples.
Because we too have this tendency to criticize and judge others according to our standards or beliefs.
Certainly this is not something new, because even the 1st reading reminds the Romans, as well as reminds us, not to pass judgement on a brother or treat him with contempt.
We may be able to quote the profound verses and remember the important passages of the Bible.
May we also remember to put the core message of love in the Bible into our lives as disciples of Jesus.
Tuesday, November 5, 2024
31st Week, Ordinary Time, Wednesday, 06-11-2024
31st Week, Ordinary Time, Tuesday, 05-11-2024
Sunday, November 3, 2024
31st Week, Ordinary Time, Monday, 04-11-2024
31st Ordinary Sunday, Year B, 03.11.2024
Deuteronomy 6:2-6 / Hebrews 7:23-28 / Mark 12:28-34
No one can be forced to listen to a message that they are not prepared to receive.
They may have heard the message many times over, but they do not respond to it, or act on it.
They may even know the contents of the message, but they do not really put it into practice.
Over the past two days, the Church celebrated two feasts that have a profound impact on our lives.
And these two feasts make us reflect on our lives and how we should go on living.
The first is the feast of All Saints, in which we express our belief in the Communion of Saints.
We are reminded of the call to holiness, that the Saints are praying for us to join them in heaven to praise God in eternity.
The second is the feasts of All Souls, in which we remember our departed loved ones and all the faithful departed.
We offer Mass and pray for them, so that they will be purified and rest in the eternal peace of God.
So, the feast of All Saints reminds us of our eternity.
And the feast of All Souls reminds us of our mortality.
The message is plain and clear, and it grounds us down to this reality:
We were born without bringing anything into this world.
We die without taking anything with us.
But the surprising thing is that in the interval between life and death, we fight for what we did not bring in, and we desire for what we cannot take away.
In other words, we forget about our mortality and our eternity.
We know the message, we have heard it numerous times, but we forget to put it into practice.
In the gospel, the scribe asked Jesus about which is the first of all commandments.
As a scribe, he should know the answer to his own question.
For whatever motive he had in asking that question, Jesus replied plainly and clearly: “This is the first: Listen, Israel, the Lord our God is the one Lord, and you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind and with all your strength. The second is this: You must love your neighbour as yourself. There is no commandment greater than these.”
Then at that moment, the scribe seemed to be enlightened and he realized what the Commandment is about.
Jesus seeing how wisely he had spoken said, “You are not far from the kingdom of God.”
This gospel passage tells us that there will be an appointed time when we will realize the truth of life and the reality of love.
For me, the appointed time has come in my last weekend of ministry and service in this parish.
The truth of life is that there will be changes, but God has His plans for me and for this parish community.
But in the midst of changes, the reality of love and blessing does not change.
I came to this parish about 10 years ago wondering what is God's plan for you and me.
As God’s plan unfolded, it was blessing upon blessing, and love upon love.
From you, I have learned what is simplicity and humility, and to love God with all my heart, with all my soul, with all my mind and with all my strength.
And I hope that I have shown you how to love God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind and with all your strength.
I have received abundant blessings from the Lord, and I also wanted to share God's blessings with you.
Some of you may have received unique showers of blessings of Holy Water on your hair, running down your face, and maybe into your eyes and into your ears.
Yes, God loves us and blesses us abundantly.
May we also love God with all our heart, with all our soul, with all our mind and with all our strength.
Then we will not be far from the kingdom of God.
Friday, November 1, 2024
All Souls Day, Saturday, 02-11-2024
Thursday, October 31, 2024
All Saints, Friday, 01-11-2024
As Christians, we are called to a life of holiness
on earth.
It is the God of holiness, our Creator, who is
calling us to reflect His holiness on earth.
That is our mission, that is our destiny and
that is also our salvation.
So, we must strive to be holy, and when our
journey on earth comes to an end, we will join the Saints in heaven.
That is our belief, that is our hope and that
is our eternal destiny.
As we celebrate a feast of All Saints, we renew
our hope in the mystery of the Communion of Saints.
We believe that the multitude of Saints in
heaven are praying for us to join them in eternity to praise God.
These Saints, whether they are officially canonized,
or among the multitude of other Saints in heaven, have strived for holiness on earth
and are now in heaven.
The Church proclaims this mystery as revealed
by the Holy Spirit, and today we celebrate the reality of that mystery.
And we also believe that the Saints are praying
for us.
So, our Christian Mission does not come to an
end.
We live a life of holiness on earth, and when
we eventually enter into heaven, our mission is to pray for those on earth to
be saved.
That is what the Saints are doing for us, that is also what we must do for others on earth, because that is also what we will be doing in heaven for eternity.
Wednesday, October 30, 2024
30th Week, Ordinary Time, Thursday, 31-10-2024
Tuesday, October 29, 2024
30th Week, Ordinary Time, Wednesday, 30-10-2024
Monday, October 28, 2024
30th Week, Ordinary Time, Tuesday, 29-10-2024
Sunday, October 27, 2024
Sts. Simon and Jude, Apostles, Monday, 28-10-2024
Saturday, October 26, 2024
30th Ordinary Sunday, Year B, 27.10.2024
Jeremiah 31:7-9 / Hebrews 5:1-6 / Mark 10:46-52
A disadvantage is understood as an unfavourable position or circumstance, or a condition that reduces the chances of success or effectiveness.
Whether the disadvantage is personal or external, it is not something that we are happy about.
A disadvantage can also be called a problem, and as with any problem, we want to look for solutions.
So, if we are poor and the others around us are rich, then we wouldn’t buy what those others could buy, and we couldn’t live the lifestyle that those others could have.
We will have to settle for the minimum.
Or, if we are of poor health, then we can forget about competing in sports or winning medals and trophies.
But with every problem, there can a solution. It is futile to keep complaining about problems without looking for a solution or an alternative.
But there are some problems that may not have immediate solutions.
There is this story of a young man who is poor and unhappy because he couldn't find a girlfriend and he wanted to get married.
So, he went to see a wise men for advice. The wise man looked at him and said, “You will be poor and unhappy and unmarried till you are 40.”
Then the young man asked, “Until 40? Then after that?”
The wise man replied, “After that you will get used to it.”
Maybe there are some disadvantages and problems in life that require some getting used to.
In the gospel, Bartimaeus, or the son of Timaeus, was in a difficult disadvantage and with many problems.
He was blind, and he had to beg for people's sympathy to get on with life, and he had to get used to it.
More than that, he doesn't seem to have an identity of his own. He was called the son of Timaeus.
He was really in the depths of poverty. He has no identity, no dignity and maybe even no sympathy.
Because when he heard that Jesus was passing by, he shouted for Jesus to have pity on him.
And the people around him scolded him and told him to keep quiet.
But Bartimaeus only shouted all the louder for Jesus to have pity on him.
The disadvantage of Bartimaeus was that he couldn't see.
But his ears could hear that Jesus was near, and he still had a voice to call out to Jesus.
Even though the people around him tried to silence him, there was one thing that was his advantage, and that was pointed out by Jesus.
When Jesus asked Bartimaeus what does he want, Bartimaeus asked to let him see again.
The reply of Jesus is truly a revelation for Bartimaeus - Go, your faith has saved you.
The disadvantage of Bartimaeus was his blindness.
But his advantage was that he had ears of faith to hear that Jesus is near.
He also had a voice of faith to call out to Jesus to have pity on him.
Each of us has our own disadvantages in life as well as our problems.
Even the famous biblical characters have their struggles:
Moses had a speech impediment.
David was considered too young and inexperienced to fight Goliath.
And when he became a king, he committed two grave sins of adultery and murder.
Peter was impulsive.
Paul was a ferocious persecutor of Christians.
But at the very core of their lives, they had faith in God.
With faith, we will face our problems with prayer.
And with prayer God will turn our disadvantages into revelations of how marvellous and wonderful His love is for us.
And may our prayer be: Jesus, have pity on me.
Friday, October 25, 2024
29th Week, Ordinary Time, Saturday, 26-10-2024
Thursday, October 24, 2024
29th Week, Ordinary Time, Friday, 25-10-2024
Wednesday, October 23, 2024
29th Week, Ordinary Time, Thursday, 24-10-2024
29th Week, Ordinary Time, Wednesday, 23-10-2024
Monday, October 21, 2024
29th Week, Ordinary Time, Tuesday, 22-10-2024
Sunday, October 20, 2024
29th Week, Ordinary Time, Monday, 21-10-2024
Saturday, October 19, 2024
Mission Sunday 2024, 20.10.2024
Isaiah 2:1-5 / Ephesians 3:2-12 / Mark 16:15-20
The word “go” gives the idea that there is a movement.
The word “go” is usually followed by a phrase that indicates some kind of activity.
So, it could be go for a meal. Or go for a walk. Or go shopping. Or go somewhere for holiday.
Those kinds of activities give a sense that the activity is enjoyable and relaxing, and we look forward to it.
But it may not be so for all activities that follow after the word “go”.
To go for a meeting may be boring if we just have to be present and listen to presentations. On the other hand, it could be stressful if we have to give a presentation to our bosses.
So, we would like to know what it is that is after the word “go”. Like … go away? Or, do what? Or, meet who?
In the gospel, Jesus tells His disciples to go out to the whole world and proclaim the Good News to all creation.
He told them that they will be given gifts that will show that they are God's messengers.
In His name, they will cast out devils, they will have the gift of tongues, they will pick up snakes in their hands, they will be unharmed should they drink the poison, they will lay hands on the sick who will recover.
So, they went out, preached everywhere, the Lord working with them, and confirming the message of salvation with signs from God.
But the mission is not without difficulties or danger. There was rejection and persecution.
Some had to lay down their lives in witness to the Good News.
But the mission continued to this day and the mission reminds us of this: that the Good News is a divine message and not a human initiative.
And because it is a divine message, it comes with blessings for the messenger as well as for the listener.
The gospel tells us that Jesus ascended to heaven, and there at the right hand of God, He took His place.
The right hand of God is the sign and the symbol of the power and the blessing from God.
Jesus gives us the power to proclaim the Good News and He gives us His blessing to carry it out.
Mission Sunday is a call to discover God's gift in us and to discern our mission as Christians.
If we have a St. Benedict's medal, we will see that on one side is a symbol of the Cross with some inscriptions around it.
On the other side is a figure of St. Benedict holding a Cross on one hand and a book on the other.
St Benedict used the Cross to preach the Good News. The book is the rule that he used to promote the monastic life. That was Saint Benedict's calling.
Then there's also the image of a raven carrying a loaf of bread and its beak, and there is also a cup with a snake crawling out of it.
The story is that the enemies of St. Benedict wanted to harm him by poisoning his bread and drink.
But when St. Benedict said the blessing over his food, a raven came along and carried the bread away, and a snake crawled out of the cup.
So, the Lord Jesus protected St. Benedict from harm as he carried out his mission
And the Lord Jesus will also protect us when we respond to His call to go and proclaim the Good News
On this Mission Sunday, let us ask Jesus to help us discover our gifts and to respond to His call.
And as we go forth to be messengers of the Good News, Jesus will work with us and He will give us the signs to confirm the truth of the message.
Friday, October 18, 2024
28th Week, Ordinary Time, Saturday, 19-10-2024
Thursday, October 17, 2024
St. Luke, Evangelist, Friday, 18-10-2024
Wednesday, October 16, 2024
28th Week, Ordinary Time, Thursday, 17-10-2024
Tuesday, October 15, 2024
28th Week, Ordinary Time, Wednesday, 16-10-2024
Monday, October 14, 2024
28th Week, Ordinary Time, Tuesday, 15-10-2024
Sunday, October 13, 2024
28th Week, Ordinary Time, Monday, 14-10-2024
Saturday, October 12, 2024
28th Ordinary Sunday, Year B, 13.10. 2024
Wisdom 7:7-11 / Hebrews 4:12-13 / Mark 10:17-30
Many sayings and opinions have been expressed about the subject of money.
And it cannot be denied that money is indeed a very useful thing.
With money we are able to fulfil our basic needs of food, clothing and shelter.
With money, we will have a comfortable life and we are able to afford the luxuries of life.
On the noble side, money is used to help the poor and needy, and to fund humanitarian projects.
Generally speaking, no one would say that they don't want money, or that they have no need for money.
Indeed, money is useful, and he who has money can be quite powerful.
But there are things that money cannot buy and have no power over.
Money certainly cannot buy life. Money can never bring the dead back to life.
And money cannot buy true friendships.
And money also cannot buy love.
In fact, when we have no money, then we will know who will help us, who are our true friends and who will really love us.
In the gospel, a man ran up to Jesus, knelt before him and asked what must he do to inherit eternal life.
The man kept all commandments and he wanted to know if there is anything else to do.
Jesus looked steadily at him and loved him. Then he told the man to sell off everything he owned, give the money to the poor and he will have eternal life.
But that man's face fell, and he walked away sad, because he was a man of great wealth.
Jesus had looked steadily at him and loved him.
That man looked at his wealth, but did not look into the eyes of Jesus.
It is said that the eyes are the windows of the soul.
Just as Jesus looked steadily at that man and loved him, Jesus looks at us and loves us too.
But just as that man looked at his wealth, we may be too busy looking at other things.
Our eyes look and not just money and wealth. Our eyes look at what we desire for sensual pleasure and luxurious possessions.
When it comes to food, our eyes become bigger than our stomachs and we eat till we overeat.
So, we are busy looking at earthly desires and our eyes avert from looking at Jesus.
Still, Jesus continues to look at us with that look of love, with eyes that want to tell us something.
But we are busy, as busy as a bee.
Bees may be busy, but they still have time to talk to the flowers.
It seems that flowers talk to bee using static electricity. If a flower hasn't been visited recently by a bee, it gives off static electricity.
That static electricity tugs at the tiny hairs on the bees’ back, letting them know which flower still has nectar.
Like how the flower prompts the bee, Jesus prompts us to look at Him as He looks at us.
As we feel His promptings, may this hymn also come to our minds:
Turn your eyes upon Jesus,
look full in His wonderful face.
And the things of earth
will grow strangely dim
in the light of His glory and grace.
Friday, October 11, 2024
27th Week, Ordinary Time, Saturday, 12-10-2024
Thursday, October 10, 2024
27th Week, Ordinary Time, Friday, 11-10-2024
Wednesday, October 9, 2024
27th Week, Ordinary Time, Thursday, 10-10-2024
Tuesday, October 8, 2024
27th Week, Ordinary Time, Wednesday, 09-10-2024
Monday, October 7, 2024
27th Week, Ordinary Time, Tuesday, 08-10-2024
Sunday, October 6, 2024
Our Lady of the Rosary, Monday, 07-10-2024
Saturday, October 5, 2024
27th Ordinary Sunday, Year B, 06.10.2024
Genesis 2:18-24 / Hebrews 2:9-11 / Mark 10:2-16
One of the basic and fundamental needs in life is the need for survival.
From the moment we came into the world, we instinctively made it known that we want to live and survive.
So, even though when we were helpless little babies, we would cry out for attention in our need for food.
And as we started to crawl around, we would put into our mouths anything we can lay our hands on, and our parents would go into alarm or panic mode.
When our need for food is met, and we have a stable supply of food, we will turn our attention to something else.
Not being satisfied with just having food to survive, we now want to have our place in this world.
So, we begin the quest for recognition and status, for academic qualifications, for job promotions and for material possessions.
Instinctively, we will look for what benefits us and we will avoid what are burdens to us.
So, it is like when we have to go out on a rainy day, we will look for an umbrella, for the benefit of keeping dry.
But, when the rain has stopped, or when we have no more need for the umbrella, then it becomes a burden, because we have to carry it around.
So, in life, our human survival instinct tells us to get what benefits us, and to avoid and reject what are burdens to us.
In the gospel, Jesus gave a teaching about marriage, and He stated that from the beginning, marriage was instituted by God.
That beginning is what we heard in the 1st reading, when God said: It is not good that the man should be alone. I will make him a helpmate.
The Lord God made the man fall into a deep sleep, and then took to a rib from the man and created the woman.
So, something was taken from the man and given to the woman.
So, it can be said that a man and a woman commit themselves to marriage because they want to give themselves to the other.
Marriage is not for self-benefit, neither is it to think of the other as a burden.
When marriage is understood as a self-sacrifice for the other, then there will be love in the marriage.
Needless to say, that in marriage, one spouse cannot think of the other as an umbrella for rainy days, and a burden when the rain has stopped.
Rather, one becomes the umbrella and a shelter for the other in rainy days.
This self-sacrifice of love is what parents will teach and show to their children.
I once watched a movie clip about a father who went to fetch his twin children from kindergarten on a rainy day.
When the father reached the kindergarten and saw his two children happily waiting for him, he realized that he had only one umbrella, and it was not a big umbrella.
For a moment, the father looked at his children and looked at the umbrella.
The next scene showed him holding the umbrella over his two children, and he was wet in the rain.
What he did for his children, he would also do for his wife, and his wife would also do likewise.
And that is how we see the meaning of our life.
More than just food and other things for survival, we live because of love.
To survive is just to exist. But to live is to love.
God created us in love, with love and for love.
Let us go forth and share God's love with our world.