Wisdom 6:12-16 / 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18 / Matthew 25:1-13
We know that learning is a lifelong process. Already we spend the first 20 years or so of our life in school acquiring knowledge.
And as we continue to journey in life, we also learn new things every day.
We learn a bit more about ourselves, about the people around us, about the things around us, and also about life in general.
Along with knowledge, comes another aspect which is called IQ or Intellectual Quotient.
Putting it in simple terms, IQ is like the hardware of the brain and knowledge is the software and data installed in the brain.
Or IQ is like the speed and the RAM of the computer, while knowledge is the files, documents, and programs stored in the hard drive.
And so it can be assumed that a higher IQ enables knowledge to be acquired faster.
But life is not just about knowledge and IQ. As human beings, we also have EQ.
EQ or Emotional Quotient is about how the brain handles human experiences and relationships.
In simple terms, knowledge is the map and EQ is the driver's composure and navigation skills.
Besides knowledge and IQ and EQ, there is also a seldom mentioned SQ or Spiritual Quotient.
Again, putting it in a simple example, knowledge is like a car, IQ is the engine, the EQ is the steering and handling, and SQ is the compass.
The SQ is the compass which determines why we are driving, where we want to go, and whether the destination is truly worth reaching.
Putting knowledge and IQ and EQ and SQ together, may indicate the depth of wisdom in a person.
The gospel parable is about 10 bridesmaids who took their lamps to meet the bridegroom, but five of them were foolish and five of them were sensible.
The foolish ones brought along their lamps but no extra oil. The sensible ones also brought along their lamps and also extra flask of oil.
The bridegroom was late and the bridesmaids grew drowsy and fell asleep.
When the bridegroom finally arrived, the five foolish bridesmaids realized that they do not have enough oil.
They went to get it, but when they returned, it was too late and they were shut out.
The teaching point of the parable is to be prepared for unexpected situations, like the five wise and sensible bridesmaids did.
So, when we use our knowledge, our IQ, our EQ, and also our SQ, we will be wise enough to go through life.
We will know what to do to be prepared for sunny or rainy or even hazy days.
We will want to be at peace with ourselves and with others, fostering mutual understanding, patience and harmony in our relationships.
We will look before we leap.
We will be careful about what we sow because we reap what we sow.
And we will even be prepared to expect the unexpected.
But as much as we want to be prepared to expect the unexpected, we may need to think deeper about it.
All our knowledge, our IQ, EQ, or SQ may help us to expect the unexpected.
But when God comes up with the unexpected, then it is because He wants us to learn something new.
For example, we always say that God won't give us more than we can handle. That is like what we expect.
But the unexpected could be this: God will give us more than we can handle. Why?
Because in those impossible situations, God is inviting us to move from self-reliance to God-reliance.
There is a difference between our human wisdom and the divine wisdom.
And the difference is expressed in this poem (by Grace L. Naessens):
I got up early one morning
and rushed right into the day;
I had so much to do
that I didn't have time to pray.
Problems just tumbled about me,
and heavier grew each task.
"Why doesn't God help me?" I wondered.
He said, "But you didn't ask."
I wanted to see joy and beauty,
but the day toiled on, grey and bleak.
I wondered why God didn't show me.
He said, "But you didn't seek."
I tried to come into God's presence;
I used all my keys at the lock.
God gently and lovingly chided,
"My child, you didn't knock."
I woke up early this morning,
and paused before starting the day;
I had so much to do
that I had to take time to pray.
When our knowledge, our IQ, EQ, and SQ are placed before the Lord in prayer, then He will teach us His ways, and how to walk in His paths.
And we will also be able to share the wisdom of God with others, and also teach them how to pray.