Weekday Homilies
Monday, December 29, 2025
Sixth Day Within The Octave of Christmas, Tuesday, 30-12-2025
Sunday, December 28, 2025
Fifth Day Within The Octave of Christmas, Monday, 29-12-2025
Saturday, December 27, 2025
Holy Family, Year A, 28.12.2025
Ecclesiasticus 3:2-6, 12-14 / Colossians 3:12-21 / Matthew 2:13-15, 19-23
The usage of words presumes that they are used correctly and the meaning is clear.
So, in a discussion or in a deliberation, words are used to express ideas and concepts.
When the ideas are understood, and the concepts are clear, then the discussion or the deliberation will be fruitful.
But there are times when words are joined awkwardly and the meaning can be rather humorous.
Like for example, we have heard of this phrase “unexpected emergency”. But thinking about it deeper, all emergencies are unexpected; there is no planning for an emergency to happen. So, in short, there is no need to have an “unexpected” before emergency.
The same can be said about “final outcome”. Is there like a “non-final outcome”?
Or, how about “extra bonus”. Bonus, by definition is already something extra.
Other phrases that have this redundant repetition are phrases like “new innovation” and “repeat again”.
We have used these phrases, but they are understandable when used casually.
Today, we come across the term that has a profound and unique meaning, and that is “Holy Family”.
The word, “family”, is understandable in logical and conceptual terms.
But the word “family” also touches on the emotional, because it is a reality in our lives; we all come from a family; we all have a family.
And with the word “holy” before “family”, then our attention is turned to the family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph.
Much has been said about the holiness of that family that is expressed in kindness, gentleness, compassion, understanding, patience and unity.
But we would shy away from using the word “holy” for our families.
Although we strive to be like the Holy Family, we cannot deny that it is indeed challenging and difficult.
On the other hand, we have seen and heard of broken families, dysfunctional families and other negative adjectives that come before the word “family”.
Still, when it comes to our families, we hope that we will at least be a happy family, living simply with charity, and striving for harmony and unity.
In other words, deep within, we want our families to be like the Holy Family, especially in times of trials and tribulations.
In the gospel, we heard of how the Holy Family endured challenges and difficulties.
But they were able to journey on because of their faith in God and their love for each other.
Every family will have to face their moments of crisis.
A crisis can be a source of division resulting in hurt, bitterness and resentment.
Or, a crisis can be an opportunity of discovery and the renewal of faith and love, as well as the strengthening of the emotional bonds that are deep within our humanity.
There is this story, or practice, among the nomadic communities in the Gobi desert of Mongolia.
When Mongolian camels reject their newborns, the herders do not respond with force or other means of control.
Instead, they turn to an ancient ritual rooted in patience, empathy and sound.
For generations, those nomadic communities have practiced khöölökh, which is a soft repetitive, coaxing song, sung directly to the distressed camel.
Accompanied at times by the low tones of a horse head fiddle, the song is meant to calm the mother camel and re-awaken her maternal bonds with her calf.
As the melody continues, the camel often becomes still, and tears begin to form in her eyes.
Eventually, she lowers her head and allows the baby camel to nurse and accept it as her own.
Across the harsh grasslands where survival depends on livestock, the practice of khöölökh has saved countless newborns.
It stands as a reminder that some of the oldest knowledge systems recognise a truth that modern societies often forget.
The truth is that emotional and family bonds are not repaired through force or control.
But it is through the means of a soft song and mellow music that the powerful emotions of love are awakened, and that will bring about healing and bonding.
And we have that means. The soft, repetitive sounds of family prayer and hymns will awaken and renew the powerful human family emotions of love, that will lead us to desire for peace and harmony, kindness and forgiveness, understanding and patience towards our family members.
When families are united in faith and love, the parish community and the Church will also be united in faith in love.
May the prayers of Jesus, Mary and Joseph be heard in our families, in our parish and in the Church, so that the world will be awaken by love, a love that will bring about God’s blessings of peace to the world.
Friday, December 26, 2025
St. John, Apostle and Evangelist, Saturday, 27-12-2025
Thursday, December 25, 2025
St. Stephen, the First Martyr, Friday, 26-12-2025
Wednesday, December 24, 2025
Christmas, 25.12.2025
Even before Christmas Day has arrived, we have already kind of celebrated Christmas.
For the past two weeks or so, it was one Christmas party after another.
So, we have already eaten the turkey and all the things that are stuffed in it.
The fridge still has some remnants of the log-cake, and maybe a few more uneaten ones.
Next to the log-cakes are also pieces of the honey-baked ham.
So, it is the usual festive foods that we are looking at.
The presents may also have been given out and exchanged.
So yes, the celebrations have begun even before Christmas Day has arrived.
So, now that Christmas Day is here, it is to eat up whatever that is left and to open those presents.
In a way, it can be a good thing, because having already done all that, it leaves us to focus on what Christmas is really about.
As we come for Mass, we also go back in time to Bethlehem.
Bethlehem means “the house of bread”, but we are not looking for bread.
We come to the animal shed, and we look at that manger, which is the feeding trough of the animals.
And lying there, wrapped in swaddling clothes, is a newborn child.
The setting is rather difficult to comprehend, or to understand.
How can a baby be born in such a place?
And also among those animals?
But we look, we ponder and we wonder.
We are told that this is the Son of God, the Prince of Peace, the Word made flesh.
He was not born in a palace, or in a clean and decent place.
And because there was no room at the inn, so He was born in a resting place for animals and laid in a manger.
Yes, that is God became man, the Saviour, and He went through all that just to be with us.
Jesus came into the world to show us how much God loves us.
But the world was not prepared to welcome Him.
But that did not stop Jesus from coming into the world.
And Jesus wants us to learn this lesson from Him.
In life we will face the closed door, or many closed doors.
It is like there is no room at the inn.
But Jesus tells us that when life shuts the door, then open it again.
That is how the door works. Doors can be shut; they can also be opened.
Jesus found an open door in the hearts of Mary and Joseph.
May Jesus also find an open door in our hearts.
And as we celebrate the birth of Jesus, may we open the doors of our hearts to peace and reconciliation, to kindness and forgiveness.
And may closed doors be opened to let hope enter, so that there will be room for God’s love to come into the world.