Isaiah 25:6-10/ Philippians 4:12-14, 19-20/ Matthew 22:1-14
The world as we know it is changing and it is changing at a very fast pace.
If change is the only constant, then it is indeed constantly fast and furious.
In Singapore, if one had left the country for a couple of years, he would be amazed on return, and even astounded, at how much the local landscape has changed.
But change is not just about physical appearance. There is also a change in behaviour, attitudes and in the meaning of the words we use.
Once upon a time, there was this term “Sunday best”. It meant that when we go to church on Sunday, we would be dressed in our best.
That was once upon a time. Nowadays that term “Sunday best” is hardly used and even the style of dressing to come to church has changed, and maybe changed too drastically.
Probably only on certain occasions that people are dressed in their best and one occasion would probably be church weddings.
And even then it is only once in a life-time and it is only for the bride and the groom, and maybe for the entourage.
And talking about dressing at weddings, there is this joke about a little girl who was attending a wedding for the first time.
She whispered to her mother: Why is the bride dressed in white?
The mother replied: Because white is the colour of happiness and today is the happiest day of her life.
The little girl thought for a moment and then asked the mum: So why is the groom wearing black?
Today’s gospel parable talks about an invitation to a wedding and also about a wedding garment.
It’s no ordinary wedding. It’s a royal wedding, the wedding of a king’s son.
Certainly it is an honour and privilege to be invited to that wedding.
Then comes the twist in the parable. Those who were invited were not interested.
One went to his farm, another to his business, and the rest turned violent and even killed the servants sent to invite them.
To say the least, the parable does not make sense in that an invitation to a celebration turned in a rejection that led to destruction.
It is as puzzling as that last line of the gospel: For many are called, but few are chosen.
But being called and chosen would also require a response just as being invited would require a response (RSVP) to the invitation.
If many are called and few are chosen, then it is a question of how those who were invited chose to respond.
In the gospel parable, those who were invited chose to reject the invitation and even turned violent.
Nonetheless, it was a response though it was a negative and unfavorable to say the least.
What is most annoying and frustrating is a non-response, that puts everything on hold and leaves things hanging.
A non-response would mean indifference and not being interested.
In a way, it would be about how we dress when we come to church although it may be just about appearance.
But the external appearance in a way is a reflection of the internal disposition.
I remembered what a staff of a tuition centre that provides assistance to needy students said about the attire of the students when they come to the classroom.
The students are expected to be dressed decently and in clean clothes and the tuition centre would even help them get those clothes if necessary.
Even though they are poor and needy, the students are taught to give themselves dignity and respect themselves and others by what they wear to class.
That brings to mind the man who was without the wedding garment. That man showed no respect for the host, nor for himself.
The scriptures also had something to say about clothing (Col 3:12-15) -
You are God’s chosen race, His saints; He loves you and you should be clothed in sincere compassion, in kindness and humility, in gentleness and patience. Over all the clothes, to keep them together and complete them, put on love.
In our fast changing world, some things must remain constant, otherwise there will be no anchoring points in the face of the waves of changes.
We need not come for Mass in wedding garments but in our “Sunday best” and by that we mean that we give our best response to God’s invitation to the Eucharist.
It is in the Eucharist that God wipes away the tears from our eyes, takes away the rags of shame, and clothes us with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience, and fills us with His love.
We are called, we are chosen. Let us respond with our “Sunday best” – the best of our love – for God and for others.